After a series of unfortunate events, which included getting a passport stolen on our honeymoon resulting in Paúl being sent back to Ecuador to renew his passport and visa before returning to the US to help me with our luggage (short version of the story!), Paúl and I finally hauled our 9 suitcases to SFO and gave teary hugs goodbye to my loving parents at 6am Monday morning (Oct 17th). The trip was as smooth as 10 hours of flying can be, and we landed in Quito to be greeted by the hustle and bustle of South American city life. It's been over a year since I've been back to Quito, and although the main skeleton has remained the same, there is much about Quito that has changed. It seems that Quito is perpetually under construction, although, this time I can say it's for the better. They are creating tunnels and thoroughfares on some of the busiest intersections, which will eventually help the flow of traffic into and out of the city to the surrounding suburbs during rush hour. They are also constructing a subway system that will run north/south through the main valley of the city. In the meantime- it's chaos. So many roads blocked and diverted, all over the city. I suppose it must get worse before it gets better, right? My favorite part is that the pedestrian detour runs along the construction site, and at one point, right through it. Literally. The taped off walkway ends and directs you through the site to cross to the other side where the caution tape resumes. This would be my nephews idea of a dream come true! :)
| What we have to look forward to |
| Current state of traffic |
| Pedestrian detour right through the site! |
I also have seen that there are a ton of new restaurants, gyms, pilates/yoga studios, and small businesses. Who knows how long each will last, but we are willing to try them all. Paúl and I have been scouring the area for a gym that meets our qualifications and is in a convenient location in relation to his job, our house, Izi's school, and Izi's mom's house (as we know that most of our time will be spent shuttling between these 4 places).
In the meantime, life has started full speed ahead. We are getting lots of good time with Izi and getting to participate in school events now that we are in the same city. She also turned 8 this past weekend, so we were both happy to be part of her celebration. She and 2 friends wanted to go to a local play gym place with huge fun slides, bumper cars, a climbing wall, archery range, and (of course) ice cream! :) They then had a slumber party at her mom's house and we all met up for lunch the next day- she chose sushi! She was all smiles and excited about all the books she got as presents.
Paúl started his teaching job at a local graduate studies university, and he is happy walking to and from work everyday. He is enjoying his students, so far, and glad to be back in the classroom. He also got his group of friends to start meeting up to play an Ecuadorean version of volleyball on Sundays in the huge central park. While he plays, I get to go take the big group aerobic class in the same park- that way we're both happy.
As for me, I am slowly building my clientele of private kiddos and making my connections with local doctors and therapists to get some referrals in. I am also still working part-time for the same company back in California doing webcam therapy sessions. Pretty cool that I get to keep that connection and work from home. The time difference, all though small, is a bit of a challenge, but it's nice to still have some income.
I suppose the good thing is that we haven't had much down time since getting here- I know that it's those quiet moments, when I'm home alone, that I start to feel a little homesick. This time is definitely different than any other time I've moved away since I'm doing it with an amazing, supportive, and loving partner. But it's still not home- yet. :) At this point, where is "home" anyways, right? We've talked about ways we can start to build a new community here (as my brother mentioned at the wedding) ;) so I am confident that with a little time and effort, we'll make it happen.
I think of you all often, and have taken tons of random pictures to share of the day-to-day life. Check them out here
For those of you with smart phones, WhatsApp is the app I use most for texting and calls. My new phone number is +593 98 544 6369. I'd love to hear from any and all of you, however you are comfortable, whether it's emailing, texting, calls or Facebook. :) Snail mail is a bit unreliable here, so I'd encourage against that for now.
Love, Em